You don’t have to finish healing before you’re allowed to love and be loved. Having a partner can help you raise your love ceiling. “You have to love yourself before you can love someone else.” It’s one of those lines that gets repeated. But is it true? People hear it and think, So… I’m not ready, then. I should wait until I’ve fixed myself before I let anyone in. Please don’t do that. Treated as a prerequisite, it has talked a lot of people out of love they were good and rea